If you decide not to decide, you’re still deciding.
Life will always confront you with decisions that you need to make. You don’t HAVE to decide, but it would be in your best interest to do so. Would you rather let someone else, or I guess no one else, call the shots in YOUR life?
If you don’t like what your life looks like right now, make a decision to change it. If you float through life not making decisions how in the world do you think you will get to where you want to go? What does that world look like to you?
Making a decision could mean saying “no” or potentially hurting other people because you realize that a situation or person does not serve you. So you decide to leave it. There are no negative decisions unless you are intentionally hurting others. If your decisions lead you to happiness and bettering yourself, then you have made a good decision.
You cannot focus on what other people think nor can you let them decide for you. It’s your life, take charge and decide to go after what you want!
*This is the perfect time of year to start making these types of decisions. Well, anytime, being now in general is a good time. But with all of the New Year’s resolutions flooding your social media feeds, why not decide to make some of your own. But remember make them for you, not anyone else. Make sure they are what you want and what will make YOU happy*